Throughout history, flowers have symbolized new life. “Flowers and their various life cycles — new blooms, new growth — automatically represent new beginnings," says Tiera George, owner of TG Floristry in Raleigh, North Carolina. “A flower is always a nice gift for a new baby; it's just a very fresh thing.” So it makes sense that each birth month is represented by a special flower with individualized meaning. And while most parents have already heard of zodiac signs and birthstones for each month of the year, you might be unfamiliar with this precious birth flower tradition. First popularized in the 1800s, birth flowers take symbolism to the next level.[1] Each month of the year is represented by a special flower (or two!) with its own meaning.
So how can you celebrate your little one’s arrival with this unique tradition? Here’s how to use birth flowers to predict your little one’s personality, decorate their nursery, and more.
What are birth flowers?
The idea that flowers have spiritual and emotional meaning isn’t new. In Ancient Egypt, the blue lotus symbolized daily rebirth and rejuvenation,[2] while forget-me-nots were a sign of love and remembrance in medieval Europe.[3]
Poets, scholars and gardeners in Victorian Europe and the United States were inspired by this history and published a variety of literature on the topic, including The Language of Flowers: A History and the very famous collection, Fortuna Flora by Sarah Hale. Hale's book introduced the idea that each person has a birth month flower — aka a "flower of destiny" — that could reveal your future just like your star sign. Hale assigned specific flowers to each month based on what was in season at that time.
Nowadays, birth flowers are used to predict your little one’s personality traits and temperament and can even take on a new meaning as he grows and explores his world: “Birth flowers are also about understanding where you live, the ecosystem and what grows in your region," George says.
What are the birth flowers for each month?
Ready to explore your child’s birth flower and how you can use it to celebrate your little one? Or even find your own? Each month usually has at least one flower, sometimes two based on regional availability:
Fun things to do with birth flowers
There are so many ways to incorporate your little one’s birth flower into their first year.
“Birth flowers are a great theme for newborn photos, from decorating a headband for your baby to wear, including a flower arrangement or dressing the baby as their birth flower,” says Meredith Andrews of Meredith Ann Photography in Wilmington, North Carolina. With the help of a professional newborn photographer (and/or Pinterest), the sky’s the limit. “Then you can hang the photo in the nursery,” Andrews explains.
Birth flowers can also turn just about anything into a meaningful, personalized baby gift (by the power of craft sites like Etsy and Spoonflower). Here are some great ones:
Framed pictures of birth flowers to hang in the nursery
Floral onesies and other fun baby clothes
Throw blankets, swaddles or bath towels with a floral print or embroidery
Wooden toys or even an elegant baby brush painted with your little one’s bloom
Just remember, children are full of surprises — including showing up early when you’ve already planned your birth flower extravaganza — so proceed with caution when buying birth flower products before your little one is born!