It’s hard enough getting a toddler to stand still for a wardrobe change. But once your tot develops the ability to take off his clothes, dressing your child may become a lot more complicated.
First, take a deep breath — this behavior is usually totally normal (and harmless). Around the ages of 2 to 4, toddlers decide that letting it all hang out can be, well … kind of fun.
Add to that a young child’s need for control — and an eagerness to test boundaries — and you have a recipe for a dressing disaster.
Here’s what to do when your tot’s favorite outfit is his birthday suit.
Why is my toddler taking off his clothes and diaper?
There are several reasons why toddlers like to be naked — and some of them make a lot of sense! Here’s why your child may prefer to go au naturel:
It feels good. Wearing nothing can feel a whole lot better than wearing an itchy shirt or a stiff pair of jeans— especially if that shirt or pair or jeans is still sporting an irritating tag that’s rubbing against his skin. It’s hard to argue with that logic, so you might want to opt for more comfortable clothing — think: light cotton fabrics with the tags removed.
To assert control. Shedding their clothes is a way for toddlers to declare their independence and test their boundaries (a common theme these days, in case you haven’t noticed). By taking off the outfit you painstakingly put on, your little streaker is sending the message: “You might be able to dress me, but you can’t keep me that way!”
To show off skills. After years of having Mom or Dad dress them, toddlers are eager to show off their newly acquired dexterity (“Look what I can do!”).
To a toddler, it isn’t taboo. Toddlers aren’t exactly modest, so they don’t know what’s appropriate and what isn’t. They also haven’t yet grasped the concept that some things are allowed in private, but not in public — so if he takes off his clothes for bathtime, he may want to go in the buff at the pool too.
He has sensory issues. If despite your best efforts to try the usual tactics, your toddler won’t listen and continues to take off his clothes or diaper instead of staying dressed, there’s a slight chance that sensory issues could be at play, as extreme sensitivity to clothing textures and labels is one of the common symptoms. However, it’s very unlikely that’s what’s going on. Talk to your pediatrician if you’re worried.
Tips for getting your toddler to keep his clothes on
The more you make a fuss, the more your child will insist on going bare-bottomed. Instead, be patient and try these tips:
Say yes sometimes. When temperatures and circumstances allow, let your child be naked if he wants. When he does need to get — and stay — dressed, explain that people wear clothes outside the house or when guests come over because their bodies are private.
Switch up the outfits. If he persists in public disrobing, try dressing him in clothes that are harder to take off, like overalls, shirts with small buttons or pants with a belt.
Take off the tags. Tags can be irritating to a toddler’s sensitive skin, so you may have more luck keeping him dressed if you remove them in advance.
Don’t overreact (or even react at all). Acting horrified or punishing your little one will send the message that his body is something to be ashamed of. And if you laugh, he’ll think, “Aha! Here’s a way to get attention” — which means you may be setting yourself up for a repeat performance.
Let him pick out an outfit. He may be more likely to leave his clothes on if he has a say in what he wears. As you’ve probably noticed by now, toddlers love to get their way! Give him a choice between two outfits, and if he comes up with an inappropriate idea (like a T-shirt in February), offer a compromise when possible, like layering another shirt underneath first. To lessen the chances of this happening again, pack out-of-season clothes out of sight and out of mind.
Provide opportunities for practice. Give your toddler a doll or stuffed animal with easy-on-and-off clothes and let him dress — and undress! — his toy to his heart’s content. (Putting the clothes back on is always harder, so you may need to stick around to lend him a helping hand.)
What to do when your toddler keeps taking his diaper off
If clothes tend to stay put, but the diaper keeps getting yanked off, that may be a sign that he’s ready for potty training. Many toddlers also go through a phase when they become averse to messes, including the ones they make in their diapers.
If that’s the case, you can start preparing your child for potty training by praising the benefits of using the toilet or showing him how you use the toilet yourself (if you feel comfortable doing so).
If your child isn’t ready for potty training — and you’d rather not have poop and pee on the rugs for the next few months — try making the diaper harder to take off by putting it on backwards or reinforcing it with a piece of tape. You can also dress him in clothes that are trickier to remove.
No matter what, try to take this stage in stride. Like many other bewildering (and sometimes frustrating) toddler behaviors, this, too, will be a thing of the past before you know it.
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