Maybe you’re trying to get pregnant and your nerves are shot as you hunker down for the two-week wait between when you think you hit the baby bingo and your expected period. Or maybe your period is a few days later than normal this month. Either way, you're likely wondering whether there's a chance you could be pregnant — and how soon you can find out.
If you think you might be expecting, take a pregnancy test and make an appointment with your health care provider, who can confirm your findings with a blood test. But in the meantime, check out the prompts below to get a sense of whether the symptoms you’re experiencing are the usual PMS or, perhaps, early signs of pregnancy.
Here’s more about the difference between pregnancy and PMS, as well as our pop quiz that can help you answer the question: Am I pregnant?
Am I pregnant or is it PMS?
Many early pregnancy signs are very similar to PMS symptoms, which means it can be tricky to know the difference until you either get your period or a positive pregnancy test.
As for what’s behind both symptoms, you can thank a surge in the hormone progesterone that occurs during both the second half of your cycle and in the early days of pregnancy.
Similar symptoms may include:
- Tender breasts
- Bloating
- Fatigue
- Food cravings
- Constipation
- Mood swings
- Headaches and nipple sensitivity
But there are a few indicators that may point to pregnancy over PMS, including breast pain that lingers, darker (and larger) areolas, the need to pee more frequently and a suddenly more sensitive sense of smell — all due to an estrogen increase in your body.
Am I pregnant? quiz
1. Is your period late?
- A: Yes, and it’s usually as on time as a well-tuned Swiss watch.
- B: Yes, but I have irregular periods, so this isn’t too unusual.
- C: No, I got my period.
If you answered “A”: Head to the pharmacy for a pregnancy test, stat! There’s a very good chance you’re expecting, though there are some other reasons for a missed period, so you'll have to see what the test results are and ultimately get them confirmed by your doctor.
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If you answered “B”: Irregular cycles can make tracking your fertile days challenging. If you’re trying to conceive, know that many women with irregular cycles get pregnant and have normal, healthy pregnancies. Take a pregnancy test if your period is more than a few weeks late, and make an appointment with your doctor if you have any concerns about your menstrual cycle.
If you answered “C”: You’re probably not pregnant, but let your doctor know if you have concerns about any other symptoms you might be experiencing.
2. Have you been experiencing mood swings?
- A: Yes! I’m annoyed with my partner, my boss — even the dog! And my period is due.
- B: No, I haven't noticed any changes.
If you answered “A”: Stock up on the tampons and tissues: This sounds like a classic case of PMS-induced mood swings. While moodiness can happen in early pregnancy, it’s usually a little later on. Hold out for another week or two and if your period still hasn’t started, try an at-home pregnancy test.
If you answered “B”: Not every woman experiences mood swings before her period, so take a home pregnancy test if your period is late.
3. Have you been feeling nauseous?
- A: Ugh, just thinking about fish or looking at raw chicken makes me want to vomit.
- B: Nah, I have a stomach of steel.
If you answered “A”: Is your period a couple of weeks late, too? It could point to pregnancy! You may very well be experiencing the first throes of morning sickness (poorly named, because it can happen all day) due to changing hormone levels that make your sniffer more sensitive and relax the muscles of your digestive tract.
If you answered “B”: Fortunately, your meals aren’t bothering you, but keep in mind that morning sickness can pop up as late as the 9-week mark, so nausea later on is still possible.
4. Have you noticed any unusual spotting?
- A: Actually, a couple of days before my period was scheduled to arrive, I had some light spotting.
- B: No, no blood at all.
If you answered “A”: It’s still a bit early to say, but you might have experienced implantation bleeding — which is when a fertilized egg burrows into the endometrium of the uterus. Most women say it’s noticeably different from their usual periods and tends to be light pink or brown in color.
If you answered “B”: Implantation bleeding could still occur — or your period might arrive a bit late. What's more, not every pregnant person experiences implantation bleeding, so you could be pregnant even if you didn't notice anything unusual.
5. Are your boobs feeling more tender?
- A: Ouch! They’re so sore, though my period is due soon.
- B: No, they feel pretty normal.
If you answered “A”: Both PMS and an early influx of pregnancy hormones can cause this symptom, so give it a few days. If your period doesn't show up, it’s time to pee on a stick.
If you answered “B”: Lucky you — this symptom is no joke for many women. And, again, not all moms-to-be experience breast tenderness or changes so early on.
6. Have you noticed any nipple changes?
- A: Um, yes — what’s happening? I’ve got bigger, darker nipples with a few funny little bumps.
- B: Well, I do have tender breasts, but my nipples seem the same.
If you answered “A”: Changes to your nipples, including a darkening areola, increased size and tiny bumps (known as Montgomery’s tubercles, which lubricate your nipples in preparation for nursing a few months from now) are one of the most surefire early signs you’re expecting.
If you answered “B”: Breast soreness without changes to the areola is likely a PMS symptom, especially if the pain disappears once your period arrives.
7. Are you constipated or bloated?
- A: I’m as stopped up as Los Angeles morning traffic — and my period is days late.
- B: I seem to be rather regular, thank you very much.
If you answered “A”: Snag a pregnancy test! That uncomfortable bloated feeling and constipation are often early signs you’re expecting, as the pregnancy hormone progesterone slows down your digestive tract. (Keep in mind, however, that there’s also a chance it’s PMS in disguise.)
If you answered “B”: Sensing a pattern here? Although some moms-to-be may notice bloating very early on, others may not experience it until closer to month 3 of pregnancy.
9. Do you have food cravings?
- A: I can’t resist egg and cheese sandwiches and coffee milkshakes! And my period is due.
- B: I haven't noticed any appetite changes or unusual cravings.
If you answered “A”: Food cravings and insatiable hunger are a pretty solid PMS sign, so there’s probably no baby yet, unless your period is also late. During pregnancy, appetite changes or cravings tend to emerge at the end of the first trimester.
If you answered “B”: Of course, not all women have noticeable cravings before their period is due, but if your period is late and you aren't experiencing some typical PMS symptoms you otherwise would, take a home pregnancy test.
10. Are you more tired than usual?
- A: Yes, in fact, a freight train roaring through my bedroom couldn't wake me up lately.
- B: No, not more than usual.
If you answered “A”: Here’s another one of those wait-for-your-period-and-see moments: Fatigue can just as often come with PMS as with early pregnancy.
If you answered “B”: Bank your sleep now as pregnancy and parenthood are equal parts exhausting and exhilarating!
Do all women get early pregnancy symptoms?
Even if you’re bloated, nauseous and are experiencing breast changes, you might not necessarily be pregnant. At the same time, you may not have a single noticeable symptom but then end up spying two telltale lines or a plus symbol on your home pregnancy test.
Yup, just as every woman is different, so is every pregnancy, which means you may feel several early symptoms — or none at all.
When to see your doctor
As soon as you spy the positive sign on your at-home pregnancy test, make an appointment for your first prenatal care visit. Seeing a doctor early and regularly is key to having a healthy pregnancy and baby. It’s also smart to make the call right away since some practices are busy and may not be able to fit you in for several weeks.
The first prenatal visit usually happens between weeks 6 and 8 during the second month of pregnancy, though if you feel like your condition may be high-risk, either because you have a chronic illness or a history of miscarriage, tell your practitioners’ office so they can try and fit you in as soon as possible.