At 3 months, your little one is exploring the world around him — and is often doing so with his mouth. Not only is this okay, but parents should actively encourage this type of exploration, since this kind of manipulation allows babies to learn about sensations like texture, smell, and more, says Sarah Lytle, Ph.D., director of Outreach and Education at the Institute for Learning and Brain Sciences (I-LABS) at the University of Washington. As your child enters the "everything goes in the mouth phase," however, you'll want to be cautious of potential choking hazards on toys, such as those with small parts or that can fit entirely in a child's mouth.
But quality play at this age isn't limited to developmental toys. Imitating your baby's smile, coos and babbles count as play from birth to 6 months, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) — these kinds of interactions are fun for baby because they enhance your bond and teach them important social cues. You can also show and let your baby manipulate bright and interesting objects. Or, place your baby in different positions so they can see the world from new and interesting vantage points.
That said, toys are only a part of the perfect play time. "It is very important for all parents to interact with their baby while they play with the toy, as it helps their development as well as to further build the parent-baby bond," says Steven Abelowitz, M.D., F.A.A.P., regional medical director of Coastal Kids Pediatrics. "The ‘perfect toy' is no replacement for quality time engaging with their parents."
What to consider when buying toys for a 3-month-old
Before you purchase toys for a 3-month-old child, take these factors into consideration:
- Size. You don't need a 3-foot-tall bear at this age, Dr. Lytle says. At 3 months, "babies aren't quite ready to hold toys on their own yet, but they could." Smaller toys will help encourage that instinct to grasp and hold items on his own.
- Tummy time. While you should be doing tummy time as soon as you bring baby home from the hospital, Ilan Shapiro, M.D., F.A.A.P., medical director of health education and wellness at AltaMed Health Services, says you should upgrade the activity around 3 months.. Add in a fun toy so he has something to hold his interest while he's on his tummy.
- Multiple purposes. "Our little ones go through many unique stages, so different types of objects will catch their attention at different times. So you'll want to look for toys that outlive temporary interest. I always recommend that parents buy toys that encourage touch, sight and sound," Dr. Abelowitz says. High-contrast fabric books or colorful mobiles are a good place to start.
- Safety. Babies at this age explore with their mouths. That means that not only will you want to be extra careful not to introduce toys with loose parts or small pieces, but you'll also want to select playthings that use kids-safe paints, BPA-free plastics and other baby-friendly materials. Plus, you want toys that can be easily cleaned.
How we chose the best toys for 3-month-olds
There are a lot of toys on the market, which is why we asked Dr. Abelowitz, Dr. Lytle and Dr. Shapiro to help narrow down selections. They shared what features to look for in toys for 3-month-olds based on the factors above (like safety, longevity and size), as well as which types of toys are especially great for little ones at this stage based on what's happening with their development.
Because every baby is different, your little one's toys will probably be different from another baby's favorites. So, we also turned to the What to Expect community of parents to see which picks were their babies' favorites at the 3-month mark. Seeing what is overwhelmingly loved by so many other children (and their parents) can help make your shopping experience a little easier. We then made sure their suggestions aligned with our experts' guidance, met safety requirements and had glowing reviews on shopping platforms.
Below, find the best toys for 3-month-olds.